WHY THE DREAM TEAM WAS A DREAM TO COACH (PART I)

The following comes from Chuck Daly's first team meeting with the 1992 Olympic "Dream Team."  But first, let's just review the Dream Team roster: Charles Barkely, Larry Bird, Clyde Drexler, Patrick Ewing, Magic Johnson, Michael Jordan, Christian Laettner, Karl Malone, Chris Mullen, Scottie Pippen, David Robinson, and John Stockon!

Finally, Daly approached the most delicate subject, one even more frightening than terrosim since it was well within the realm of possibility.

"Look, there are twelve of you, and you're all All-Stars and future Hall of Famers," said Daly. "and there is no way I can get all of the minutes you're use to having on ----"

Magic and Jordan interrupted him.

"That isn't going to be a problem," said Jordan.

"We're here to win, and nobody is going to care about playing time, Chuck," Magic said.

Such problems, particularly the knotty one of minutes, are rarely solved that easily.  This one was.  Magic and Jordan said there would not be a problem, and that was that.

From "Dream Team" by Jack McCallum

OFF TO ITALY

Tomorrow we leave with our Aggie basketball team for a 10 day trip to Italy.  We will play four games during the trip after having 10 days of practices here in College Station.  We will also have a great opportunity to build some team chemistry as well as visit some historical sights and sample a different culture.

I will try to blog a bit while gone but forgive me if the rate drops what we are used to at Hoopthoughts!

I will be tweeting during the trip -- @TAMCoachStarkey

ATTITUDE IS A CHOICE

No one should ever lose a job, miss a promotion, or destroy a marriage because of a poor attitude. Why? Because a person’s attitude is not set; it is a choice.


1. Take responsibility for your attitude

Singer Roberta Flack recalls, “My mother had only gone as far as the tenth grade, and my father had a third-grade education, but they both were very literate. They spoke well, and their values were high. They drummed into our heads that the situation you live in doesn’t have to live in you.” Our attitudes don’t come from our circumstances or personal history. Attitude does not come from outside ourselves. It comes from within.

The first rule of winning is don’t beat yourself. If your attitude isn’t as good as it could be, and you fail to take personal responsibility for it, then you are beating yourself. However, if you look in the mirror and can with honesty say, “The attitude I possess is my responsibility and no one else’s,” then you’re on your way.

2. Evaluate your present attitude

To improve your attitude, you need to assess where you’re starting from. This may take some time. Your goal isn’t to condemn yourself. It’s to see yourself clearly so that you can make positive changes to the way you think. Identify problem feelings about yourself. When do you feel most negative about yourself? Write down your answers. Identify problem feelings related to others. Attitude issues often relate to other people. What causes you the greatest problems when dealing with others? Once again, write down your answers. Identify problem thinking. We are the sum of our thoughts. What negative thoughts consistently control your mind? Write down your answers.

3. Develop the desire to change

The desire to change is the key to growth in all areas of life. Ironically, most people desire improvement, yet at the same time they resist change. The problem is that you cannot get one without having the other. Change is possible, but only if you want it badly enough. As Fred Smith observed, “You are the way you are because that’s the way you want to be. If you really wanted to be any different, you would be in the process of changing right now.” Of course, change is never that easy. It takes lots of time, tremendous amounts of energy, perseverance, and—of course—desire. That’s not a decision you make once and forget about. You need to cultivate that desire every day.

4. Change your attitude by changing your thoughts

Norman Vincent Peale, author of Power of the Plus Factor, wrote that he once came across a tattoo studio in the twisted streets of Kowloon in Hong King. In the window were drawings of the hundreds of choices of tattoos available from the artist who worked there. One in particular really struck him. It said, “Born to lose.” Peale was appalled that anyone might actually ask to have that permanently written on his skin. He went inside and asked the Chinese artist, “Does anyone really have that terrible phrase ‘Born to lose’ tattooed on his body?” “Yes, sometimes,” the artist answered. “But, I just can’t believe anyone in his right mind would do that.” The artist tapped his forehead, and in broken English said, “Before tattoo on body, tattoo on mind.”

Major premise: We can control our thoughts.

Minor premise: Our feelings come from our thoughts.

Therefore: We can control our feelings by changing the way we think.

That’s why I believe the saying, “You are not what you think you are, but what you think… you are.”

Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they’ve been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It’s an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It’s a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.

Most of the great work in this world was done by men and women who didn’t believe that what they were doing was impossible. Talent is certainly beneficial, but only the right attitude can release it to reach its potential.

5. Develop good habits

Much of what we do every day comes from habitual behaviors. Over the course of time, we have developed a way of approaching life. We treat people a particular way. If we desire to get different results out of life, then it’s not enough to change only our thinking. We also need to change our habits. Why? Because if we don’t we will revert back to our old thinking. In fact, some people recommend changing behavior first. Psychiatrist William Glasser says, “If you want to change attitudes, start with a change in behavior. In other words, begin to act the part, as well as you can, of the person you would rather be, the person you most want to become. Gradually, the old, fearful person will fade away.” Fortunately, habits are not instincts. They are actions or reactions that we have acquired over time. If you can pinpoint the original cause in your thinking that prompts a bad habit, you can change it.

6. Manage your attitude daily

One of the most significant discoveries of my life was realizing that we often place too much emphasis on making decisions and too little on managing the decisions we’ve already made. Today Matters. Maintaining the right attitude is easier than regaining the right attitude. A Chinese proverb I came across gives insight: “Assume a cheerfulness you do not feel, and shortly you feel the cheerfulness you assumed.” Elbert Hubbard says, “Be pleasant until 10 a.m. and the rest of the day will take care of itself.”

From "The Difference Makers" by John Maxwell

THOUGHTS FROM KEVIN EASTMAN

Here are just a few gems from Kevin Eastman during his several lectures at Coaching U Live this summer in Washington DC.  I say just a few because Kevin averages around 700 per clinic!  Want all 700? Sign up for Coach U Live next summer -- guaranteed it will be worth it!

Be there before you get there (great thought in regard to a players mentality -- especially defensively)

The great ones (Players/Coaches) have Master Ability
     ...responsibility
     ...dependability
     ...accountability
     ...availability

Do you know what's going on in your locker room?

Knowledge is quickness

Can't win with "my turn shots" = shooting turnovers (Boston stats these)

"Do you want to be in the news or in the Finals?!"

Ever notice every player's Hall of Fame induction speech mentions a coach (or several) -- the impact of what we do.

Good players KNOW the plays...
Great players EXECUTE  the plays.

In regards to your administration "budget your bitches." -Murray Arnold

Demand in February what you did in October -- core covenants

Are you best players getting enough shots/touches (this one sounds simple but its not -- are you giving it constant thought)

See the action, don't force the action.

Assistant Coach are there to "assist" the head coach -- "weed the garden"

GENERAL THOUGHTS FROM MIKE DUNLAP

Don't be sarcastic with your players because you will lose them in February.

Use the cadence of your voice as a tool.  Change your instruction.

Kids want consistency.  Eliminate gray areas.

Reinforce positive behavior.

You become a master coach when you get away from your practice plan.  Have 3 things in practice you warm up with that you want to accomplish.

The more things you try to do in practice, the worse you get.  Exercise: Write out your practice plan three times.  Each time, don't add anything but remove something.

Look at your methodology of teaching and evaluate it.  Don't just worry about drills and plays.

Don't change your system when you lose...change your behaviors in practice.

TWO QUALITIES LEADERS ARE LOOKING FOR

"Leaders aren't born; they are made.  And they are made just

like anything else, through hard work.  And that's the price

we'll have to pay to achieve that goal, or any goal."

-Vince Lombardi

There is perhaps no area of your life where self-discipline has a great impact on your future than in your work.

A group of senior executives was asked, "What are the most important qualities that a person would need to be promoted in your company?"  Of these executives, 85 percent agreed that the most important qualities are:

1. The ability to set priorities and work on high value tasks; and
2. The discipline to get the job done quickly and well.

There is nothing that will bring you more quickly to the attention of people who can help you than for you to develop a reputation for hard, disciplined work, every hour of every day.

From "No Excuses" by Brian Tracy

DALE BROWN ON THE IMPORTANCE OF A STAFF

The organization and development of a competent coaching staff is absolutely the most important part of your basketball program.  The core requirement for hiring the people who comprise the staff is that they must understand and accept the philosophy of the program as set forth by the head coach.  Some individuals in the profession will argue that players are the most important aspect of a program, and, indirectly, their conclusions would be correct.  competent coaches, however, are the facilitating agents whose efforts turn a player's performance potential to reality.  At a minimum, coaches are in essence teachers.  Not only do they teach players the fundamentals and basic techniques that are essential to sound play, they also teach team members how to be a viable part of a larger unity -- the team.  Furthermore, on the college level, the entire staff is responsible for the recruitment of those players -- the better the staff, the better recruiting.

From "Dale Brown's Basketball Organization Handbook" by Dale Brown

WHAT COACH K WANTS FROM HIS PLAYERS

This is what I want from my players -- a belief in a higher authority and respect for that authority.  But the truth is that if they don't have it to a certain degree by the time they get to Duke, I'm not sure they'll ever have it.

That's why we try to recruit kids who already show that type of respect.

All the players on our team must have the discipline to believe and trust in what a coach says to them at a moment's notice -- and the coach has to believe and trust in what they say to me at a moment's notice.

From "Leading with the Heart" by Mike Krzyzewski

STAFF MEETING GUIDELINES FROM COLIN POWELL

I encouraged all my subordinate commanders and staff to feel free to argue with me.  My guidance was simple: "Disagree with me, do it with feeling, try to convince me you are right and I am about to go down the wrong path.  You owe that to me; that's why you are here.  But don't be intimidated when I argue back.  A moment will come when I have heard enough and I make a decisions.  At the very instant, I expect all of you to execute my decision as it if were your idea.  Don't damn the decision with faint praise, don't mumble under breath -- we now all move out together to get the job done.  And don't argue with my anymore unless you have new information or I realize I goofed and come back to you.  Loyalty is disagreeing strongly, and loyalty is executing faithfully.  The decision is not about you or your ego; it is about gathering all the information, analyzing it, and trying to get the right answer.  I still love you, so get mad and get over it.

From "It Worked For Me" by Colin Powell

"PARACHUTE PACKED" A LONG WAY FROM HOME

I have blogged before about the story of "Who Packed Your Parachute" which also includes a great exercise for your team.  You can read the story here: http://bit.ly/KfIFy

After working my way through the July recruiting period, I had a few instances of abdominal pain which at times got to be severe.  And then on the last day of the period, July 31 it got to the point where I could barely rise from hotel bed in Augusta, Georgia. I didn't even make it to the gym for the last day of games.  I climbed into my car (literally) and hit "hospital" on the GPS and drove to the closest one. 

My good fortune took me to University Hospital.  After a battery of tests it was discovered that I had a "diseased" gallbladder that was starting to deteriorate and effect some of my other organs.  This along with a hernia problem.  The doctor told me it was far too serious for me to fly back to College Station for surgery and that he needed to go in as soon as possible. 

And with that my stay in Augusta was extended.

Over the next five days, an outstanding surgeon and a litany of nurses "packed my parachute."  Three shifts of three nurses per session took care of me -- and then the weekend shifts came in.  Each nurse had their own personality but each one did their job remarkably well.  Some went above and beyond the call of duty.  Jennifer discovered my iPhone was losing power.  Because I did not pack for the hospital, all of my belongings were still in the hotel.  So she brought her personal phone charger from home for me to use.

None seemed to be basketball fans but it didn't effect the quality of my care.  So far away from home but given the very best of treatment.  Now, as I sit in my office in Texas A&M, I know how fortunate I was that my GPS navigated my to University Hospital.

Thanks to all there who "Packed My Parachute."