Friday, September 16, 2011

WORDS OF WISDOM FROM COACH DON MEYER (PART I)

A few weeks ago, I was fortunate enough to spend a day with one of my mentors, Coach Don Meyer, listening to him speak on the topic of leadership.  It was part of his nationwide Leadership Tour.  While I will certainly have more posts on things he spoke about, I spent a couple of days "tweeting" short, random thoughts that he shared with us.  Here is that two day list of thoughts in case you aren't on "twitter" (shame on you) or in case you missed a few of the tweets:

Sometimes being different is good for a team...helps sharpen each other

We all lead and teach until we die.

With true friends, we don't have to measure our words.

Players -- be your own captain.

If you ain't serving, you ain't leading.

Coach Wooden served people but not nearly as much as when retired from coaching...worked harder after coaching serving

On taking notes: Retrieve, Review, Reinforce ...8% better retention if you review notes in a week

Today is all we really have

You can have anything you want but you can't have everything

Worse reason to take a job? Money

Some of the greatest feelings can be expressed in silence

All successful ventures have the element of team building

In tough times, revert back to the process -- clean it up

Take a good luck at the picture before you put the puzzle together (whole-part-whole teaching)

Mark of a real leader is when he gets ran out of town he looks like he's leading a parade

Plan, Prepare, Practice, Play ----- like you lost your last game

"Responsibility is the Price of Greatness." -Coach Summitt

Be the kind of coach you want your son/daughter to play for

Key for coach (and parents) -- catch 'em doing something good!

Key for successful coaching is finding a way to win when the ball doesn't bounce right

#1 thing that hurts leaders – arrogance

Must understand it takes great energy to move people to a higher level

Communicating to your players -- phrases are better than sentences

More teams, businesses & families fail from a lack of discipline...Discipline more than talent & skill will prevail in the end

"You haven't taught until they've learned." - John Wooden

Every part is important -- even the parts you can't see -- they may even be more valuable

Whisper criticism, yell praise

Regardless of where we are, somebody helped us get here

Leaders that "reflect" credit, "shine" brightly

The saddest day in your life is when you are no longer productive

Everyone needs to know someone who sees greatness in them.

The one thing I've noticed in all the great coaches I've observed is that they brought it everyday

The most essential and greatest challenge of a coach is to teach players to never give up.

Rely on discipline not emotion

Don't say it if you don't mean it -- don't pull your guns if you're not ready to shoot.

Amount of words don't correlate with amount of wisdom

People aren't attracted by what they see in you, but by what you see in them.

As a coach you need to know who is helping you when aren't there

Some would rather be ruined by praise than saved by criticism

Sit and think 10 minutes every day about what you do...how can I be better

Measure people by how they handle a challenge

Most teams fail because of selfishness inside

Exercise is your 2nd job...helps your health, your sanity and generates ideas

“Glad to if I’m able” is better than “Yes”

Create a “3rd Place” – away from work and family where you can read, study and pray.

Best thing you can do for yourself is pray for other people

Customers quite because incompetence and indifference

Nothing like the thrill of doing something that benefits someone else

Weekly planning is the key to successful organizing

Can’t tell an eagle from a buzzard when they fly together

Get all the good ideas you can but know you can’t use them all

Everything you do you write it down so you can do it better the next time

A great leader never gives a good team member a reason to quite…a poor leader gives them several everyday

You never stand as tall as when you admit a mistake

Keys to team building: shared ownership, shared suffering, individual responsibility, collective pride

You learn a lot more at a funeral than you do at a wedding

It’s OK to make a mistake but don’t make mistake of moping, sulking, pouting, or quitting.

Genius is 90% concentration

Knowledge is knowing what to say…wisdom is know whether to say it.

Complainers are not competitors

I wouldn’t be alive today if our players didn’t compete at the car wreck

You don’t have to win a championship to be a champion


Very few people reach the level of significance

Family is a glass bowl (fragile)…your job is a rubber ball – treat each accordingly

People don’t pay for average

Give your gift away every day

Anything NOT in moderation is bad

Improve daily by reading and observing

Play the best players that play the best together