Loyalty: Loyalty to friends, to teams and to nations is unwarranted when it conflicts with doing what’s right.
Loyalty is a word often associated with sports. Some coaches emphasize its importance. Personally, I am skeptical about it. If you find yourself demanding or asking for loyalty, you may not be doing the things necessary to inspire it.
Loyalty is often requested when it is undeserved. A person caught cheating doesn’t want you to report him and claims that doing so would be disloyal. Or a person breaking a law wants you to break it, too. In those cases, if loyalty is going to be a factor at all, it is loyalty to yourself, to your integrity, and to doing the right thing.
The way loyalty gets twisted is what I’m concerned about here. Make sure you remain loyal to yourself and to the principles you believe in. Loyalty is not always admirable; loyalty to friends, to teams and to nations is unwarranted when it conflicts with doing what’s right.
You have to decide for yourself what’s right.
Below are some articles that are well worth reading to get to know Dick and what he stands for or, as I did, to remind me of his influence and teachings.
A great article at the time of his passing in 2001 about his legacy:
Article by Dick on Leadership from HoopU:
A lot of great notes from Dick by Eric Musselman:
Here is Dick's "baby" that he has been "adopted" by Dena Evans: